Because you see yourself (projection). Because our societies are cult-like. Many relationships and families = mini societies, are also cult like (see for instance this video from Daniel Mackler to explain that idea: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inQEU2Cv9jw). Narcissism is a good way of characterizing them psychologically-technically, within the understanding they are all (weakened) forms of that. A well-meaning [...]

When you have followed my blog or video’s for some time, you may realize I indeed come from a deeply traumatized and traumatizing, profoundly mentally, emotionally and sexually ill family background - and I overcame this 100%. To grow up inside of that context, knowing nothing else as is the norm for children, made me [...]

Was about the mother sexually abusing the son, then the son would repeat that, as children do, with me, the daughter. Children are socialized by their mother-figure (him/her) primarily and siblings repeat with new born ones what they’ve internalized from that, naturally. This is a blog that keeps it perhaps shockingly short and to the [...]