Was about the mother sexually abusing the son, then the son would repeat that, as children do, with me, the daughter.

Children are socialized by their mother-figure (him/her) primarily and siblings repeat with new born ones what they’ve internalized from that, naturally.

This is a blog that keeps it perhaps shockingly short and to the point, using some third party explanations to make it more understandable and also universal.

Here are 2 clear explanation video’s about what may seem like the last taboo around childhood abuse and parenting: the mother sexually abuses their child.

1 https://youtu.be/Hrp7m4n354M?si=47CDBkoMFyFWZsXZ

2 https://youtu.be/nHfLnk_U-3E?si=t_5Gq64l-mELs5er

& one extra: https://youtu.be/C8PQNEEPaLA?si=VpzXvm03awtPt3od

Thank you so much Daniel Mackler! I found that if you’re looking for some very truthful and vulnerable, but also highly original and even provocative, account of all kinds of psychological topics, without necessarily the perspective of the spiritual depth of Twin Flame Union, you should watch his channel. It’s safe to watch with a critical mind because that’s what he is doing to his own scientific discipline of psychology.

The boundary violation from my brother would be tickling that went too far, being touched sexually, being looked at when naked washing myself, sexually stalked, asked to have sex and more and never ending, escalating stuff over progressive and teenage years.

My parents made everything perfectly possible, they facilitated the options as well by their wrong boundaries in things that seem like “normal daily life decisions”. They would deny this (they are narcissist and codependent, see this article also: https://www.creativeuniverse.earth//unionandnarcissism).

Here’s the thing: it may seem the son did not get trauma from it, only me, but that’s not true, because here is the other dysfunctional dynamic that plays out:

Women choosing sexually and/or otherwise abused and thus (or at least) weakened, insecure men as marriage partners, that then thus can be dominated by these women while being extracted of their economic value “to have a safe and sane family of their own”, stolen by them “justly and licitly” because they were trying to “take back their power” that way.

This is not only the other side of the structure of the family I grew up in, but also that of how my brother now lives. Even how my Twin Flame lived until we brought our own love life in a boundaried social societal romantic relationship.

So, this is what we break. It’s a Harmonious Twin Flame Union that brakes the deepest emotionally abusive things that happen under the guise of absolute normalcy in our culture at this time.

That’s our Mission’s profound meaning in that regard. May it be that for you as well.

Does this mean I personally am some sort of a saint in this whole disgusting scenario? That understands it and completes it by her inhumanly generous compassion? No, it means that I have lived all of this myself and that I have made another choice, repented, processed, forgave (in the ACIM definition & one that does not imply reconciliation), developed peace where there was none in me.

It means I know BECAUSE this was me and then I transformed until there was nothing left of that past in me any longer (except the capacity to tell it as an educational story). I did this through the Twin Flame Union & Mission healing as laid out in my work, that is anchored into the Ultimate Pleasure Path to Perfection.

You see, the whole point of genuinely creating a solution for things like this is you need to leave the triangle of perpetrator, victim and savior altogether and simply only move forward on your genuine, personal development-included Twin Flame spiritual journey and unconditionally commit to it forever after.

What you need in this kind of healing is the Truth of what happened and when that clicks in without trying to downplay it in any sort of way, it can start to fall away. But when you are still trying to negotiate with pieces of your emotional social puzzle that prevents you from living the Ultimate Romance as a genuinely joyful experience, you can not move on to the full reception of it.

Full clarity on perpetrator, victim, savior inside yourself and on a grander scale your social surroundings, leads to the capacity for it to dissolve. How to know exactly what your perpetrator, victim, savior Truth is, so you can developed beyond it? Do the indicated Twin Flame inner work until you are clear, and then keep on doing it until yo are beyond it. Also know that I work a specific trauma version of it with students that work sustainably with me.

 

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