Listen, your Twin Flame actually LOVES you. This is one of the biggest mistakes I see students make. They think their Twin Flame is distant for a negative reason that is blatantly against themselves. This is in Truth never the case. They may not be the True Twin Flame or your interpretation of the situation is very much off: they are distant because you set it up for this to be so in some sort of way and are thus empowered to remove this condition yourself. You can heal you and because you are literally an integral part of the Union just as much as they are, the situation will change.
Your Twin Flame actually LOVES you and is not like a false Twin Flame consuming your well-meant intentions, time, money, effort while they mean to not contribute anything of themselves. You might need to learn to say no to such a person badly and this will open the door to your True Twin Flame. The real one will not desire to go against what is best for you and even when the expression in relational, social actions can still heal deeper than what they portray right now, they will unconditionally love you.
You can sense that, just like you can feel they can indeed grow into an even more intimate form of genuine relating. With the True Twin Flame this is not an undue statement and the common advice to not fall for potential can not be applied here; moreover you have the power to actually contribute to that yourself by letting your own love flow into your own endeavors of healing the Union, which they will benefit from 100%.
You know that it is genuine because you sense the communication from the Divine.
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This is the central problem you have why you are not in Union yet: you canāt receive love, you havenāt received love yet in specific relevant places, you blocked yourself from receiving Divine Love where you need it most to make Union come true in the manifested world.
Not just any Union, but with your True Twin Flame, the one you are created with at the beginning of time. Knowing that, there is actually nothing more natural and at the same time supernatural to have it in your life, because in Truth you already have it, because you are it. The point there is a connection missing in between the having and the being and that is the action, the movement of the flow of love to bring it all together.
You are your Union, you in Truth already have your Union but for the manifestation not only in the rarefied area of Truth but also have it show up as dating and relationship and companionship and everything you desire from that, in your manifested life, you need acting too. Acting towards yourself, towards your Union, in the first place.
How many of you have heard of the idea of ālove needs actionā? This is also true in Union Love, Twin Flame Love, Divine Love. But then it is directed towards letting Divine Love truly flow to yourself and via your heart and mind, to the Union you are a part of, that is your actual home. Let that love consciously flow and you will manifest Union.
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Some think far too āmagicalā about how to deal with their Twin Flame. The point of them is that they come from the deeper ground of Divine Love and on the human level you deal with them with full self love and inside a normal psychological place of consequences applied. You are responsible!
You start to interact with them within the bubble of Divine Love, and in that you can claim your worth and that is then not controlling. You stand up for yourself and claim what you need to ask space and love for, for the best results of you and them both – but you do your side of things, what you are aware of as that is your responsibility.
Within love, much is possible that is very grounded actions and communications. You are not a victim here of waiting for them to wake up or – God forbid – āDivine Timingā that often in this case only means a passive victimhood instead doing your own inner work. Is there no action that seems to be able to be taken inside Love right now? Then do inner work.
Successful students do lots of inner work and when it is the right kind, done right and with the right guidance and teacher, it really works. But it again doesnāt abdicate you from acting if necessary. Thatās what humans do – and Twin Flames are humans. The truth is quite the opposite: your True Twin Flame is the one and only person for you that will be attracted to this real YOU and you can ALWAYS make it right with them when things might have gone off track for a while.
Because they are in essenceā¦ YOU.
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Personally I am very romantic at heart and I always had this dream of meeting God in the form of a man that would be of courseā¦ romantically mine – and kiss me. As a young child, I would cherish this dream in my heart. It was so innocent yet so powerful.
To have a lover be actually God to you may as an adult sound wrong, for they are human after all, whomever we decide to spend life with, and not superheroās from the story book! But then when we look at what your Ultimate Lover is that belongs to your soul because you were created togetherā¦ it is actually correct.
Who wouldāve thunk! – However this Truth implies not that you should throw yourself into the relationship as if youāre entering a narcissistic nest, and instead it makes the whole relationship sacred BECAUSE they are a representative of God to you and to uniquely you.
The Twin Flame is not a general idea of: āAh yeah, letās see God in everyone, that is so nice as a gestureā but instead they are literally in energy your Scared You in the form of the other physical expression that belongs to your shared spiritual blueprint.
Therefore, being with the True Twin Flame means allowing yourself to be sacred too, and to be God for them. This makes it possible but many canāt even receive compliments let alone Divine Love inside themselves, so the practice of this idea is not so self-evident as it may seem.
Many, like I was, are in reality even compromised by a narcissistic upbringing and thus have a fragmented self to begin with, not an ongoing self that is needed to be able to receive. Personally, I had learned to reject myself as a baseline in life, because that is what narcissists abuse you into doing.
You need an ongoing, enduring love relationship with yourself (that is based on the Self not the ego, obviously) to be able to make the childhood dream that was true after all, real. Now that is the work you are standing before. It can be done.
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Twin Flames are not meant to live in separation. Your Twin Flame comes to be and stay with you at a certain vibration not at a point where you manipulated them enough to choose you. This vibration come to you in peace, not in anxiety or excitement (both are in Truth the same as well!).
To make this work, the first step you need to take is to un-numb yourself: start to actually feel your feelings completely until it is completed fully. That is because the Twin Flame inner work that leads you to this correct vibration, works with acknowledging how you feel as step 1.
All of this leads you to be confronted with your own unconscious resistance – and that is what makes the only real Twin Flame inner work so unpopular to do. I offer it for free with many helpful media and space to ask questions in your own post, in our Facebook living room the group Your Abundance but it could be used a lot more.
Itās okay, I also used paid coaching to make it all work. Thatās also where you break through the resistance in the first place because of your choice. However the belief in waiting is still rampant out there; even though waiting it itself does nothing only elongate the time of the process unnecessarily.
The difficulty lies in the fact that youāve pushed away your true vulnerability in your unconscious, underneath which the True Union vibration lives. So first the unconscious needs to be emptied and then the right vibration comes forward. Itās as simple but also as difficult as that. Egoās are violently protective of their unconscious.
Free the Harmonious Union vibration up in yourself, make it start flowing and be with your Ultimate Lover together to make that flow complete itself further. It is a true Twin Flame sign that they will support you in that endeavor unconditionally: your Twin Flame ACTUALLY loves you after all.
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