Many will claim that a lover in an intimate relationship should meet your needs. And that is exactly what in spiritual truth is not the case, rather it is the other way round: you are responsible for meeting your needs. And then your own actions in spiritual truth will be that you surrender them to your process of communing with Source / God / The Universe.

This is an enormous change for most. It topples your entire idea of what a relationship even is. You might feel overwhelmed by confusion and completely blank out at first if you’d accept this indeed, because it seems so foreign. And we haven’t even spoken of the relationship of Twin Flames, which has an even deeper layer to it!

Because being Twin Flames means you are already together in spiritual Truth, and have always been. You now simply do the work of manifesting that you live it in the flesh right now and you’ve got it all working. The work is doing the Twin Flame inner work and committing to it. This will seal the deal guaranteed. It is your highest relationship possible.

You’ll be thoroughly happy in this state, but it is admittedly very different than what most currently believe. So you’ve got to take it relax, slow, gradual, start to do the inner work, keep at it, and don’t do it alone but rather in a community where all the possible trouble on the way of this journey can be understood and safely released.

Many will consider themselves on the Twin Flame journey but in fact just want to complain and not solve the problem. Shocking, but true. They may have a genuine experience with their Twin Flame, or not, but they are not yet doing the exact kind of inner work needed to make it to a success. They are just stuck at their particular issue.

That issue is often pretty sad indeed: they walked off, they don’t communicate anymore, they have another, they misunderstand me, they rejected me, they live on the other side of the earth
 I completely understand this experience is intense for you and feels like the end of the world is nigh, because I have been there too once.

Others that desire to become soulfully happy may be correctly attracted to this journey but may be put off by these stories. And people that have arrived at the destination of the journey such as myself are often also like ‘yuk!’ when they hear of another Twin Flame victim. Because it is not needed to get stuck there. It can just be taken as the temporary situation that asks you to do the inner work to get on track again.

That’s how it’s supposed to be seen and done. And a smart Twin Flame does not do this alone as well, because they know it is not easy to drag themselves out of the emotional mud and get on track again. They get that not getting stuck asks for the right companionship. For a school, a community and a set of tools that has been proven to work.

Would you like to have your childhood trauma completely disappeared from your consciousness, nervous system, nightly dreams instead of remaining to function with the remnants inside of your body and mind? Would you like to heal your gut to flourishing health, your brain to clarity and full functioning?

What about building on your economic life in an autonomous way, supported by working structures, with a flow of income that doesn’t go away or get less anymore? And then on top of it also feel sexually satisfied in the depths of your body AND soul so that the illness of forever searching for the next high basically stops so that you’ll be grounded in an abundant being?

Listen, these are just the SIDE-effects of a successfully lived Twin Flame journey with the right tools, community and teacher. Let alone the central thing that you’d be going for: a real life relationship with your one and only eternal lover.

And you know what, resistance is futile: you ARE lovers already also when you are married with another or they are, also when you feel fearful to communicate with them or you are blocked by them on social media
 You dream of each other already nevertheless; you feel each others heart already no matter what, because this means that you are One Consciousness, which Twin Flames simply ARE.

The work we do therefore is to piece by piece get rid of the resistance.

Would you pay the price to make it happen?

What Twin Flame Union is not:

A psychological puzzle to solve the problem of a certain combination of attachment styles that lovers have created inside themselves inside their particular childhoods. It far exceeds this level of trouble and resolve, because it has a Divine foundation. But it will change your developmental issues in your emotional make-up nevertheless on the way, so much is true. The point is that starting to manipulate at the side of relationship action and reaction is not the way to go about (at all).

It is not a conscious relationship in which two spiritually sensitive people try to connect in ways that are very tantra, according to the latest insights of the best ways for lovers to come to true intimacy. Because it instead is a union of folks that are deep-spiritually made of the same consciousness and therefore their relationship does not need to be created with your best intentions but instead already exists (!) and simply needs to be given space to actually appear in physical life by your inner work. It’s not fashionable, not the result of hard work on the latest theories of intimacy.

It’s certainly not about the fad of creating a freeminded poly relationship that couples whomever in multiples at the same time by letting go of any traditional societal rules about how they are supposed to look. However you can freely choose your social and societal forms and gender you feel best with at your current point of the True Twin Flame journey, eventually it will fall in the deeper end of the anchor of it in the architecture of life itself and the basic structure of how your Union is created by the Divine – and in that sense you don’t make it up yourself (at all!). Instead, you surrender to your actual original design.

They are not soulmates, as this word has been for some generations used for people, lovers, that vibrate on the same frequency for a (longer or shorter) while, which can feel incredibly intense and romantic indeed, but it is not eternal. Twin Flames are not for some time at the same attractive frequency but are on the contrary created at the same time from the same beam of Divine Light. Things between soulmates and Twin Flame compared, they work very differently. When you correctly ‘get’ it, you gain the insight that soulmates are not that attractive at all and also that they have nothing to do with your Twin Flame. The collective category ‘soulmates and twin flames’ to say things about romantic attraction and relationships, does not exist.

Let’s go on your way to make it come true, together.